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  1. Thank you for all of your wonderful suggestions! I really like the braided necklace idea! Awesome! @Sarah She usually just keeps it in her mouth at nap or bedtime to go to sleep, but it usually slides out when she’s fast asleep. During the day, it’s only in her mouth when she’s tired or doing something boring. I try to keep her entertained, so that daytime sucking hasn’t been as much of a “problem.”

  2. Your dentist is WAY over the top. I will give you that how much your child sucks is a variable to take into account. Does she talk well? Does she keep it out of her mouth most of the time, but it slides in when tired, upset or bored? Our 4 yo still sucks, when she’s tired mostly (and bored, like in the car). My husband listened to the dentist and started to push her to stop – but tell a 4 yo to stop doing something is asking for a power struggle! The pediatrician told us that it’s not necessary yet to push, and by 6 we should see a decrease. Most kids (even non-suckers) get braces these days – and bite correction is part of the deal. Don’t turn a soothing technique into a power struggle…it’s just not worth it. The dentist may be concerned with her bite, but I’m more concerned with my daughter’s emotional health…..

    But I do LOVE the necklace idea….may use that next year when we start trying again!

  3. They sell this bitter stuff that you can paint on her nail, but you have to apply it several times a day. So kids apparently end up liking it so it may not work. You also should have a great prize at the end for stopping. My sister bribed 3 of her girls with piering their ears. My good friend just bribed her daughter with an American Girls doll. The combo can do it, but a 2 year old is a bit young for long term bribing. Also, your dentist might be a bit over the top. You need to get the habbit kicked before the adult teeth are in, and ideally by 4 yrs old (adult teeth average around 6 yrs old). Good luck!

  4. Oh the dentist is ridiculous! As long as your child doesn’t do in constantly, if she stops beforekindergarten she should be fine, unless there is a genetic predisposition to oral issues. My parents had 5 kids who all sucked their thumbs but all but 1 grew out of it early on. The one that still did it, snuck it later into teen years. This sibiling of mine has mild overbite, a little more protruding in the very front. I know two people that suck their thumbs as adults and they have severe palate and dental malformations from it. My child is 2 and sucks a pacifier. I’m not worried yet, though I almost wish he’d suck his thumb instead. I like the prek teacher’s idea, very positive and simple, no battle or stress!

  5. My kids never sucked their thumbs but several of my preschool kids have. I have only tried this with 4 and up kids, not younger, but everytime it has worked wonders.

    First I waited till the parents were done with the thumb sucking, and had their permission.
    I would make a braided necklace for the child to wear and then I would tie 10 bows around the necklace. I would tell them that it was time to stop sucking their thumb, but we would make it easy to learn. Each time I saw them doing it I would take off one bow, I would say nothing, not make a big deal over it at all, just take off the bow. I also never bother them during nap time. If they had even one bow left at the end of the day they got a prize. If they got a prize the next day they started with one less bow than the day before. When we got down to only having one bow on the necklace at the start of each day then the challange changed a little. If they could keep their bow all day for two weeks then they got a big prize and were considered finished with their thumb sucking. This was a very gentle way to do it as in the early days they could still suck their thumbs many times a day and still be rewarded. Of the four kids I have done this with all four stopped sucking their thumbs, happily, with in a month. This habit carried over to home as well. Worked for me!

  6. our youngest was a BIG thumb sucker. He sucked his thumb until we found a way to make him stop. Our dentist sold us a product called “Mavala Stop”. It is a nail paint that tastes super yucky that you can buy on Amazon. We waited until he was SLEEPING and painted it on both his thumbs and 2 other random finger nails. The dentist then gave him a chart to mark his progress for a month. When he didn’t suck his thumb for 30 days total he got a prize at the dentist office. The very first day we put the nail polish on he STOPPED cold turkey. He didn’t blame mom and dad because he didn’t know why his thumbs tasted so bad. It is better if the child thinks it was their idea to stop rather than being “punished” My son was 4 going on 5 when we got him to stop. We didn’t worry until he turned 4 and seemed like the connection was getting stronger rather than weaker.

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